Alright yeah I think I’ve finally learned my lesson: don’t browse any tags that have the possibility of showing this kind of thing
It’s not really good for my mental health, which is deteriorating lately
Doesn’t help that my main source of comfort left for a month-long trip to another continent today
…I think I’m gonna go on hiatus after a bit
“After a bit” in case people respond to me
I’m sure the majority of this site is cheering. No, really.

http://golemz.tumblr.com/post/70966239709/ok-so-fuck-all-you-social-justice-bloggers-who

golemz:

ok so fuck all you social justice bloggers who reblog those posts about how “heterophobia”, “cisphobia”, “misandry”, and “reverse racism” are ok but then in the tags be like, “i agree with all this but you can still be prejudice towards white ppl" or "yeah but being prejudice towards white ppl…

I’m white and I recognize all of this, which is why I honestly do not mind POC saying “I hate white people”
Because we benefit from their suffering
So, y’know what I do? I do my best not to be like the people who are truly horrible… Instead of whining about being offended because someone said something bad about white people.
So yeah. I do, in fact, try to own up to my privilege. I try not to be a horrible person towards POC just because they’re POC. I am ashamed of what my ancestors did, so I try not to repeat that personally.
And all sjw bloggers I’ve come across so far did the same. There are some who don’t, yes, but really.
TL;DR version: yeah, I do that already

via and with 8

If you truly think you are oppressed for being gay…

freeplanetickettonorthkorea:

Lets do an experiment, find a public area, and announce you are gay in a very obvious way. If the authorities decide to stone, hang, jail, etc. you… You are oppressed… If not… Well you know…

I think I’ve said this a million times but social discrimination is much more common
People do, in fact, get weird looks when they’re holding hands with their same-gender partner while walking down the street
And have you even heard of the Westboro Baptist Church??
If you seriously think “gay people don’t have it bad at all” then I have no words
Some have it better than others but if you look up “gay hate crime cases” you will find results

http://tjafanaffer.tumblr.com/post/70347775424/i-get-really-annoyed-by-the-way-sjws-treat

tjafanaffer:

I get really annoyed by the way SJWs treat disabled people. Compliments are great. Loving yourself is great. But eventually all of this melds into one big message:
You can do no wrong. You are inescapably a great person because you were born this way. You need constant compliments or you might…

"I am a normal person."
please stop that implies minorities aren’t “normal” (which is bad)
Personally, as a non-neurotypical person, it’s nice to hear people say “you matter!” I know they’re not saying “you can do no wrong,” because they’re not. If people were to stop saying positive things, then that wouldn’t be equality, would it?
(Also it doesn’t help that I feel really shitty about myself ALL THE TIME so people saying “you matter!” is really nice and I appreciate it)
They are literally notnotNOT saying “you can do no wrong.” They are not showering us with praise. Quite frankly, sometimes, I really need a little boost. Oh, but I have more than just depression issues… Which also make me feel really shitty about myself. Why can’t I do things -right?- There’s something wrong with me, but I’ve been dealing with them my entire life so it just feels natural. Meaning I don’t blame my problems on my brain, I blame them on myself. It’s exactly what’s going on, though. So when I feel especially down, people saying “you matter!” is one of the best things in the world. It makes me feel like maybe, just maybe, I’m not an utter failure. Well, I guess I am, but not thinking that is nice.
You say you hate “you’re not weak!” Well, maybe it sure feels like I am. I probably am, actually. So… What do you want them to say? They say I’m strong, but I don’t believe it.
Leading me to another point: who says all of us believe that we’re divine beings, because “we’re told we are?” (We’re not told that and we’re not that, either) It always feels like the opposite. Which is why when those “you matter!” people come along, I may not entirely believe them, admittedly, but it’s the SUPPORT that makes it work.
If you don’t want those little boosts given to us, then what do you want?
If you’re so offended by not being showered in praise… wat

Are you a white straight male or female?

donitaruga:

those-silly-sexuals:

those-silly-sexuals:

judal-is-my-spirit-animal:

those-silly-sexuals:

donitaruga:

Well fuck you buddy, your cishet filth has no place on tumblr the land of equity, freedom of speech and racial and sexual equality so get your privileged ass out of here.

Are you a cishet

Did you read my latest reply or
It started with me saying that my phone was having problems posting it the first time I tried
Are you just ignoring it/refusing to comment if you read it?
I honestly want to know
If something went wrong with that too I can just copy and paste it again or something

I PM’d you, dude so maybe answer or something.

Oh, really? I haven’t checked my inbox. I’m on my phone. .-.
Sorry about that D:

Are you a white straight male or female?

those-silly-sexuals:

judal-is-my-spirit-animal:

those-silly-sexuals:

donitaruga:

Well fuck you buddy, your cishet filth has no place on tumblr the land of equity, freedom of speech and racial and sexual equality so get your privileged ass out of here.

Are you a cishet

Did you read my latest reply or
It started with me saying that my phone was having problems posting it the first time I tried
Are you just ignoring it/refusing to comment if you read it?
I honestly want to know
If something went wrong with that too I can just copy and paste it again or something

Are you a white straight male or female?

judal-is-my-spirit-animal:

judal-is-my-spirit-animal:

those-silly-sexuals:

donitaruga:

Well fuck you buddy, your cishet filth has no place on tumblr the land of equity, freedom of speech and racial and sexual equality so get your privileged ass out of here.

Are you a cishet

Tumblr: The only place in…

And people wonder why I don’t come out in real life? Because I know people, queer or not, generally have no idea what asexuality is or even believe it exists. Regardless of how much stock you put into personal antecedotes, I’ve found that queer and straight people alike tend to be equally ignorant of asexuality. If people ever ask if I have a boyfriend or girlfriend or whatever, I just lie to them. There’s no need for anyone in real life to know I’m asexual, it’s not like it affects them at all.

Something went wrong on my phone while replying and I don’t really feel the need to type it out word for word again so I’m just going to cover important points

1.) I only come out when it’s relevant. I’m considering lying too, though, don’t worry: I’ll just give up on trying to find someone who isn’t, and if they are they’re willing to learn in a positive manner

If you know anyone like this please stuff them in a box and ship them to me

2.) My immense frustration is. believe it or not, influenced by real life stresses. Here are the major ones:

-Two loved one of mine are probably about to die

-I feel like nothing due to major depression issues, and I seriously hate myself (you’re probably laughing at this)

-I want to keep the people I care about close, except I feel like it’s failing because being myself isn’t working (note: by “being myself,” I don’t mean “hurl insults at them.” The internet brings out the worst in me)

-Psychosis issues make me feel exposed, terrified, that people are going to hate me just for what I enjoy (note: I don’t particularly enjoy h8ing on str8s most of the time, and when I do I’m mad), and so much more I can’t even begin to describe. It doesn’t help that they are literally every single moment of the day, and it’s been that way for as long as I can remember.

-My boyfriend is suicidal. He says he can’t actually do the act, but, quite frankly, I’m terrified he will. He says that I’m one of the only things keeping him here, so every time we talk I’m worried it’s going to be the last in case he decides I’m not worth it, along with living.

It’s all taking its toll, especially for the past week or so, for some reason. I feel like shit. I can’t immerse myself in the things I love anymore, since it’s all seeping into my thoughts, and there is no escape. Naturally, I get brittle.

Actually, y’know what? I may just go on hiatus for a while. It’s not like any of this is helping, besides releasing inner tension. There are most likely better ways.

Here’s hoping that new set of happy pills I’m starting tomorrow works, because it would be really nice to be happy for a change

I haven’t been feeling that way very often lately

……….

Of course I always forget things .-.
To fidel-castros-mustache: if you can barely handle me you outright won’t be able to handle Tumblr user lookatthisfuckingcisgender

— Anonymous: Concerning your father, I feel as if he's right on certain levels. No, he shouldn't invalidate your sexuality, but teenagers DO go through a lot of phases that become irrelevant within 1-2 years. If a parent invalidates some weird edge hobby of yours that might be overly expensive/overly commital, I think that's perfectly fine for them to do. What he said holds fairly true on a large scale, but perhaps not for the specific topic (sexuality)

Ah yesyes being panromantic is also a phase
The thing is I hear this -all the time- when I have to explain I’m asexual. In this case, I was testing to see if his thoughts had changed since the last time we talked about it (they didn’t), however. But it still counts.
And even if I were to find The One Magically Sparkly Penis/Vagina/Anything Else That Makes Me Experience Sexual Attraction… Why can’t he respect what I am now by keeping that to himself? I mean, telling someone “you’ll grow out of it” is semi-okay the fist time you hear it, but it just grinds on your nerves when you hear it for what feels like the twenty billionth time.
While sexuality is fluid, I’d personally rather not have it compared to things that change in 1-2 years… :x
If I had the option to magically become straight I probably would take it just to save me some hassle, despite how overwhelmingly sex-negative I am
I can still be celibate
……
Thanks for wording this in a way that can be interpreted as nice, though. I appreciate it. c:>
Because of that I’m not entirely directing this at you, it’s basically at the situation
Sorry if this sounds like a personal attack: you’re cool so it’s not >_>
Intended to be, anyway
……..
I’m sorry, I’m not very articulate right now
Although you probably don’t want to hear it, you did send the ask, so I thought I’d spill it out anyway

fidel-castros-mustache: "being attacked for your sexuality must be tough and it does not sound familiar at all" What it sounds like is that you're perpetuating the exact thing that other people are trying their best to eradicate. Score one for you my friend, as a colossal douche.

There are neo-Nazis on this site
Why don’t you deal with them first?
or is it the str8 h8 that you’re offended at
(Oh boy this is actually my first hate message I am honestly surprised it didn’t come sooner)







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